I work with Parker gel coat all the time fixing a scratch here or a ding there or holes I no longer need.
The dealer should give you a little bit gel coat if he wants your business in the future. The dealer where live is an idiot (most predict he will probably lose the franchise hopefully sooner than later) He charged me $25 for a small baby food jar full. A rip I know, but I needed it.
As far has the ratio goes, the above posts are correct for an average day temp wise. If it does not kick, or does not kick fast enough for you, just put a drop light near the repair and in about 45 minutes it will kick. Actually, it is heat that makes it kick, not the hardner. I don't worry about wax or no wax because I sand (600 grit wet or dry) the repair smooth (with small sanding block) and buff with a high speed buffer (wool bonnet) with 3m Finesse It II. Do that and you will have an undetectable repair.