I have run a 23 SE for the past 5 years. It is so much better than the 17-foot boat I had before, but it is not great in anything over a 2-3 foot chop. You will get bounced and you will get spray, particularly if you are not heading directly into the waves or have a straight following sea. I actually "tack" some times if the waves are large and the wind is howling so I can go directly into the waves then run 90 degrees off in the troughs. This turns out to be drier.
The boat rides better in rough water with more weight up front, although my passengers generally don't like being up there and getting wet. My boat has the standard Parker recessed trim tabs. They help a lot, but from what I have read here and elsewhere, larger tabs would help even more. I discovered by accident late this season that I get a noticeably better ride by adjusting the tilt way down while deploying full tabs.
The flip side of the wet ride issue is that I can get into 1.5 feet of water with the 23 SE, and often do as I explore tidal creeks and flats. Also, I love the single level deck on the 23 SE. I never have to worry about slipping off of a bow casting deck. Also the floor space is huge for a 23 footer. I have taken 8 people for sightseeing rides and we were not falling over one another.
As you must realize, every boat is a compromise. You need to decide how important the smoother and drier ride is compared to the other advantages of the 23SE. Either way, you will get a great boat.