i have two places in mind for a parker raft up...one is near Cedar Creek, Bayville, Berkley State Park, which is pretty much the center of the bay, the only drawback is there is limited dockage should someone need to use a 'flush toilet' ... there IS however a state park there with toilets (but no dockage, you'd have to beach the boat or swim in from the anchorage), and Trixies has a fuel dock with reasonable fuel prices, bait, ice, drinks, etc, and flush toilets. The cove there is deep and pretty secluded from the southwest afternoon winds...
the other place is at the northern end of the bay - i was thinking near the Mantoloking bridge, which is only a hop skip and a jump for me and a few other people, but there is a ton of dock and dine restaurants within a couple miles and LOTS of marinas with fuel docks, etc.
My schedule is pretty flexible... If its a saturday or a sunday we want that's fine too. I'd say you guys could dock at my marina for the night if you wanted but there arent any transient slips that i'm aware of.